Insights
from Jill & Joe

Have you even wondered what is would be like to live with a psychic like Jill
and be able to ask all those questions you always wanted to ask.!!


Well we can give you a little taste of that.

  I have been surprised and smiled at many of Jill’s response – not because of the
‘amazement’ of the clarity but because of its simplicity and the resonance of truth.
 
We can feel that resonance when we hear something which is true,
even of we don’t like it or don’t fully understand it.
 
So please read on in that spirit. 
 
If you don’t feel the resonance of truth or disagree with some of the following,
that is fine – they are just words after all.

Joe
 

 

 
 

Angels & Angelic Energy

Guides

Astral

Indigo Children

Butterfly Effect

Levels of Consciousness

Crop Circles

Liberation, Awakening, etc.

Death and After Life

Near Death Experience

Depression

Other Dimensions

Divine / Oneness

Past Lives & Karma

Elves, Dwarfs etc Phantom Pain
Entities & Demons Power of Intention
ET's & Alien Abductions Prayer
Fairies Sacred Places & Sites
Free Will Taking on other people's "stuff"

Ghosts

 

 

Angels & Angelic Energy
 
This was an eye-opener for me (Joe).  When I asked Jill about angels she said that she has only rarely seen an angel up close and it is a huge and awesome energy.  We can label it ‘angel’ but as an energy there is nothing soft, personal or kindly about it.  The angels Jill has experienced have fierce intent and feel and look like an inferno.  The natural reaction to their appearance is terror and awe.
 
She senses that they show up during particular convergences of energy and, during those times of heightened metaphysical alignment, humans are able to see and hear them.  As a result, they are experienced by humans as messengers.  However, these messengers appear rarely and very unpredictably.  Jill can say that they do not appear because of some interest in human well being, but as a result of cosmic energetic convergence.
 
Jill has never come across ‘guardian angels’ as they are described.  However, what she does see is that, depending on the psychology of a person, he or she can experience natural intuition as a kindly or wise adviser.  This adviser or guide can be experienced as a “guardian angel” or perhaps a being of light who provides safety and information.  Often this information is in the form of a warning about a future event or in the form of advice about a particular (often conflicted) situation.
 
Jill hears many people speak of angels and she sees that they are experiencing or seeing a particular energy.  This energy has been labeled ‘angelic energy’ …… but it has nothing to do with the awesome energy of an angel.  It is more the energy of the heart field, and is felt as very nourishing, caring and supportive.

PS

 Earlier in her career reading people's fields, Jill believed that she could see the shadow of the energetic body of an angel around certain people and erroneously concluded that these people may have been reincarnated angels.  She now clearly sees that this was incorrect; what she was seeing was the person's light body.  It looks something like this.  You can see how this light body could be visually confused with the shadow-body of an angel.

Astral
 

Some people are natural ‘astral travellers’.  All of us travel during dream state.  Jill perceives the astral body as appearing like the physical body itself, but it is infinitely lighter and  more transparent.  It appears to be connected to the physical body by a single cord, through which all the experiences of the astral person are communicated to the physical body.  Thus mental, emotional and all sensory experiences are also felt in the physical body as they are experienced in the astral.  The opposite is also true – all the experiences of the physical body are known to the astral form.  Thus, a person who sleepwalks miraculously never hurts him or herself, as the astral body is communicating with the physical and is fully aware.
 
Here is a suggestion from Jill for those of you who have never experienced astral travel or for whom the astral body is just an interesting unknown.  Try this: In the moment that you are waking in the morning, see if you can feel a little ‘bump’ as the astral body slides back into the physical body.  It re-enters through the top of the head and often ‘lands’ in the feet with a little shock or bump.  Many children are aware of this phenomenon, but adults tend to dismiss it.
Happy landings !

 

Butterfly Effect
 
 Those of you who have worked with us in person or attended any of the workshops may have heard us mention the ‘butterfly effect’.  The name comes from the idea that if we were able to travel back in time, that even the smallest change that we would cause in the past (like the simple movement of a butterfly’s wings) could bring HUGE changes to the future outcome.
 
So in the context of healing and changing our problematic patterns – Jill sees that we must also be cognisant of the butterfly effect.  An example being if someone wants to totally rid themselves of their occasional temper outbursts.  If that were really possible, as Jill points out, it would mean that ALL of the person’s fire would have to be dampened.  The same fire that expresses anger is also the fire that is the energy of motivation, of clear boundaries, of not allowing abuse, of standing up for yourself and others.  So we always work to BALANCE energies rather than remove a particular pattern.  A very small change (1%) in our makeup can have a profound effect on our quality of life.  We most likely would not like the result of fully ‘removing’ any uncomfortable pattern or condition.  We are integrated and holistic beings and wonderfully unique.  Let’s shoot for small changes that bring more balance and lightness to our everyday life!
 

Crop Circles
 
A subject of much interest and debate of recent years.  Crop circles, being beautifully and mathematically symmetric, give rise to the conjecture that they are created by extraterrestrial intelligent life.  Jill’s insight on this one is very interesting.  Leaving aside the hoaxes, she sees that crop circles are created by what she terms ‘galactic weather’.  These are huge movements of energy through space.  Some more earthly analogies are the precise patterns left by tornadoes, the designs the wind can leave in sand and snow, or the amazing symmetry of the patterns that can be seen in water resonating with different sounds.  Crop Circles are the result of huge natural galactic forces i.e the result of intergalactic weather rather than intergalactic life.
May we continue to enjoy their beauty.

 

Death and After Life
 

This could be the subject of a whole book (and has been in numerous cases).  In summary – death is death, PURE FREEDOM !  No ifs, buts or maybes.  In truth most of us are not afraid of death but rather the process of dying.  In effect each night in deep sleep we ‘die’.  The fact that we appear to awaken each morning creates the illusion of time and continuity.  So if you can, please don’t worry about any retribution, judgment day or purgatory after death.  When there is deep sleep – there is no ‘you’. When you die – there is no ‘you’ - just PURE FREEDOM.
 
However, when someone dies, there are those left behind to mourn the loss for a loved one.  The departed leave many energetic echoes behind.  As a result, people in mourning can have very real experiences which seem to indicate the "presence" of the one who has died.  This is a very natural (and kind) part of the grieving process.  It is to be welcomed and can release much pent up emotion.  It can be wonderfully healing.  No need to analyze it.
 
An interesting addendum to this subject is that of Mediums connecting with the dead – what is going on here?  The majority of mediums have high integrity and can deliver accurate information about those who have ‘passed over’.  The way Jill sees this is that a medium is actually reading the living person in front of them and picking up impressions or echoes left by the dead.  They then interpret these impressions and deliver them through the framework of an afterlife.  Jill can see these same impressions but she doesn’t interpret them in the same way and would be likely to deal more with how the grieving person is feeling and help them in dealing with their sad loss. 
Much healing can also occur for the grieving through interactions with mediums - the ‘story’ really matters little.
 

Depression
 
This state of low energy, heavy affect and decreased ability to connect and relate has plagued human beings for all of recorded history.  Jill has worked with many people with many different profiles of depression.  Energetically, they all have one movement in common in their systems.  They have experienced a time of expression and natural creativity (or the promise of expression, such as childhood).  This expression has then been met by an oppression.  This can come in the form of a relationship or a situation (internal or external) which has been experienced as a strong resistor of expression.  Almost all of us have known oppression.  Some of it is appropriate.  Without some oppression, none of us would be socialized.  But some of it is too strong for our systems and leads to suppression of our natural expressiveness.  When there is enough suppression, it eventually leads to depression.  Depression is the inability to express or create enough to sustain human resilience and optimism.  Without this natural expression, hopelessness and despair become predominant and depression occurs.
 
Luckily, human beings have a self regulating and self balancing energy system.  While the energy of depression can actually get “locked” in a person’s energy system, and will require strenuous intervention to be freed, it can happen with help and support or can occur spontaneously. 
 
Interestingly, Jill sees a direct correlation between the depressed person’s willingness to accept any and all help and the degree of healing that is possible.
 
Paradoxically, the one sure release from deep depression occurs when the person is able to return to the place where the expression was blocked initially and express the pain.  In essence,
depression is most effectively healed by expression


 

Divine / Oneness

 We hear a lot about “the divine” being special, splendid, wonderful, all powerful and usually SOMEWHERE ELSE..!  When I (Joe) first attended a meeting with Tony Parsons, there was a moment when Tony leaned back and touched the wall behind him and said that this is IT too, nothing excluded.  It is only in hindsight that I can describe the effect of that simple seeing.  Within me there was a deep relaxation and excitement.  There was, at long last, a momentary seeing that this truly is all one.  Little did I know then that all the religious and spiritual belief systems in Joe just had their plug pulled.  Nothing is more divine than anything else.  Murder is as divine as tenderness.  How can it be otherwise – it is all one.  That is Truth!  Now knowing that doesn’t stop the movement away from (or towards) violence and the belief that tenderness is better than murder.  Of course not, that is Oneness also playing the game – THERE IS NO ESCAPE, where could I escape to since ALL IS ONE. 

So if there is a readiness there to hear this message, notice the ‘jail talk’ when you hear it.  Any suggestion that there is more divine or oneness anywhere else is jail talk.  It holds (imprisons) us in the idea that this here is less divine than somewhere else.  It is ALL here.
 
We cannot be ‘outside’ oneness - there is only oneness (or divinity!).
 

Elves and Dwarfs
 

With all the interest in Lord of the Rings etc, did these creatures really exist?
Another interesting answer from Jill.  She said that these stories originated long ago and have captured the imagination of many writers over the years taking on the cloak of legend and myth.  Have you noticed that humans always like a good story and we have all noticed the ongoing embellishments and additions..!  Jill senses that the idea of Elves, Dwarfs and other such creatures originated in tales of actual tribes of humans.
 
Some tribes lived in the woodlands and to survive in that environment, they developed natural abilities …… very keen hearing (symbolized with large pointed ears) ; extremely acute sight (elf eyes!) ; ability to move swiftly and appear out of nowhere ; deep understanding of the earth energies and movement of the seasons – others might call it magic! ; great hunters and trackers using bows & arrows. These people were tall, slight in build and very reclusive. They became known as elves.
 
Some tribes lived in caves (and ‘mines’!) and developed natural abilities to help them survive underground. Very strong and muscular ; short to help move through tight spots! ; keen night sight but not so good in daylight – hence they tended to remain underground.  These people became known as dwarfs.
 
Cool !
 

Entities & Demons
 
Great material for horror stories, books and movies.  Even the terms 'entity' or 'demon' evoke emotions, ideas and stories.  Firstly Jill can sense energies that are VERY malevolent.  They are exceptionally rare and she has never experienced one up close - nor does she want to!  Anyone else who can truly feel these energies will invariably suggest a similar approach to them .... AVOID and AVOID and AVOID.  The good news is that they have little or no interest (or attraction) to most of us.  Jill has never personally seen a true case of possession.   We have come across people who have experiences that they call possession - but the real thing is a VERY different matter.
 
If you watch a movie like "The Exorcism of Emily Rose" and just imagine that something like that was happening in your life, you can see where the AVOID advice comes from !!
 

ET’s & Alien Abductions

Great movie but do they exist? Isn’t it interesting that almost all movies depicting aliens show them with human like characteristics.!  It seems that we cannot easily conceive of life other than what is familiar to us.

In any event, Jill says that she has never seen or met an ET.
Nor has she seen or met anyone who she believes was abducted by them.
That is NOT TO SAY that some people don’t have experiences which they describe and label according to their belief system.  We have spoken with a number of people who believe that they have interacted (in various ways) with Aliens.  It is NOT that we don't believe them - we do listen to and respect their experiences.  We just don’t label the experience as associated with aliens.  Nuf said.!

Nor has Jill ever seen the ‘chips’ in the brain (or elsewhere) that people sometimes believe have been implanted during an abduction.  Again we respect their actual experiences but don’t agree with the label.
 
HOWEVER, Jill does perceive what appears to be communication of some kind.  This isn’t communication with or to humans as such.  But it does seem to be galactic communication.  She doesn’t know the origin and the best analogy she offers is that it is like the sonar signals that some animals use for navigation – not a specific communication to elicit a response.  So this chapter remains open.
 

Fairies
 
Do they really exist ?
Jill’s answer to this was simple … Yes.  She can easily feel them and sometimes see them.  Joe can now sometimes feel them in a particular area of woodland.  Jill also notices that, like races of humans, fairies from different parts of the world have different ‘feels’.  In general they are VERY RECLUSIVE and are quite shocked when one notices that Jill is seeing them … and scamper immediately.  They are also pranksters and in their culture tricks that we would consider nasty are highly praised.  BE WARNED.!  For example, when we visited Blarney castle in Ireland, Jill saw the local fairies and was unexpectedly tripped (over nothing) as she was leaving the area. Hmmm!

Also, many other nature spirits exist and many people can ‘feel’ their presence.  However they do not communicate mentally as we do.  Best to just appreciate them and feel their energy.
 

Free Will
 
If you really have total FREE WILL, are the events happening in your life the ones you would have chosen ?
 
Or
 
Even if you do have free will, it is virtually useless as you have little or no control over the outcomes or consequences of your ”free” decisions!  We all know how we can intend something and something else transpires as a result of our “free” decision,
 
AND
  
You can ‘WILL’ all you like to never die – no one has managed that one yet!
 
 This is one to explore for yourself.  The old debate about preordination versus free will is never ending for the mind.  As we often write – Life is living itself and we all do know that life it utterly unpredictable.  Ramesh Balsekar puts it well when he describes us like computers (of conditioning and beliefs).  When you put a stimulus into this ‘me’ you get an automatic response based on our particular conditioning and beliefs.  Not so ‘free’ after all!!!
 

Ghosts
 

Yes Jill has seen ghosts.  It seems that few people can see them but many of us can feel them – a sense of cold, deep apprehension and sometimes the hairs on your neck jumping to attention.
What are ghosts?  Contrary to popular belief, they are not your dear Aunt Mary or Uncle George who is not yet ‘passed over’ and wanting to give you a special message of warning.  Jill describes them as the living energetic charges or strong emotional and psychological energetic imprints left behind when a person has experienced an intense emotion or particularly strong attachment to someone or some place during life.  Ghosts who are sighted over a period of time are always associated with a location.  This is because the emotional charge remains situated near the place where the event(s) occurred that carried the emotional intensity or attachment.  Even a living person leaves an energetic imprint where they have lived or worked.  Ghosts usually have the form of the person who has died and so there is a natural conclusion that the ghost is the same as the person whose energetic imprint they are the result of.  This is not so.  A ghost is the expression of a keenly felt emotion, a deep pain, a profound shock or an intense attachment.  Ghosts do not exhibit a full range of emotions as do the living.  Their expression is not balanced but is always immensely strong and may be very unsettling, as is their presence.  Hence, the unpleasant and frightening experience of the ‘haunting’.  The modern meaning of ‘haunting’ as “persistent and frequent”, or “staying habitually” or “poignant” reflects the location bound and emotionally intense phenomenon of the ghost.  Some examples of ghosts Jill has met are the ghost (or energetic imprint) of a man forever waiting for his childhood lover to return to him, the ghost of a woman guarding her ancestral home against modern intruders and builders, and the ghost of a nursery governess still playing with her young charges.
 
Are they dangerous ? Is there anything to be done if you see a ghost ?
 
Firstly ghosts can be very disruptive and frightening and in that sense can be dangerous.
Some ghosts can be communicated with.  If you are someone who can feel, hear or see them and feel comfortable with the interaction, it is possible to 'free' a ghost.  This can occasionally be achieved by asking the ghost what it seeks.  If you are able to receive its answering communication you may be able to convince it to LET GO.  Jill's own mother was adept at this process and Jill observed a number of occasions where her mother helped a ghost to be released.  An example is of a man who had just died who had previously lived in the house Jill and her family were now living in.  The man's ghost appeared on the night of his death in her mother's bedroom seeking his late wife who had passed away many years before.  Jill's mother was able to convince the ghost to release the intense seeking for his wife among the living and the ghost was released into PURE FREEDOM.

 

Guides
 
The idea that guides exist and that we have personal guides is popular.  Invariably we think of them as very wise and loving beings trying to communicate with us to nudge us in the ‘right’ direction or give us the ‘right’ answer.
 
If this is your personal experience and it works in your life – GREAT.
 
Jill doesn’t perceive separate ‘guides’ and she particularly doesn’t experience them in using the psychic gift that flows through her.  The insights she receives/sees seem to arrive complete – in a package as it were.  Her heart's intuition then works to decipher the package and put it into words and ideas that the receiving person will best understand.

Guidance is always available … it can be seen as a combination of our life experience, accumulated wisdom, intuition, thinking and good old common sense (which isn't very common).
 
PS….. As usual, life keeps us on our toes and doesn’t easily succumb to being ‘boxed’.  Many people experience times when synchronicities occur in magical sequences in their lives. 
In truth it is life living itself …. enjoy.!
 

Indigo Children & similar stories
 

Every generation has children who exhibit amazing qualities according to time and culture.  The present generation of children is no different.  "Indigo children" are just one of many groups of children who are presently showing fabulous potential.  Also, every generation has had children with remarkable healing abilities.
 
The difficulty arises with adults, not with these children.  It begins when we begin to consider these children as better or more evolved than other children and we want our own children to fall into some special category.
 
When you look at an infant, does your heart inform you that some are more special than others?  The indigo children story is all about 'more special'.  Not surprising as many of us feel less than or failures underneath our daily masks.  So the promise of having a special child (or being a special person) is very alluring.  If we want to use the idea of special, then we are all special and totally unique.  That is a miracle in its own right.!
To some this message is very relaxing, to some disappointing.
 

Levels of Consciousness
 
For Jill, there are no “levels of consciousness”.  This implies some form of hierarchy or separation.  Consciousness is a unified whole and therefore cannot be sliced up except as a concept.  All “levels” of consciousness are available at all times.  There is no “higher” and “lower” consciousness.  This is a very artificial and contrived way to view the manifestation.  It creates a sense of “better” and “lesser”, which results respectively in elitism and worthlessness.  These concepts arise from a simple misunderstanding and a loss of the essential wholeness of manifestation. 

Having said that, there are different energies.  Some are dense or dark; some are subtle and light.  Some are pleasant and some are terrifying.  Consciousness is infinitely changeable and all energies manifest within it.  Grief here, murder there, joy and pain, laughter and tears …. on and on.  It doesn’t have separations or levels or steps as we mean them. 
It is just Being, however it is, Life living itself.
 

Liberation, Awakening, Enlightenment
 

A subject of many books and so many words..! The best we can offer here is to suggest that you check out Tony Parson’s material.  He offers by far the clearest communication on this subject that we have come across.
 
www.theopensecret.com
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From Tony Parsons
 
Until your life is lost you will always wonder why . . .
for that which is sought has never been lost,
but what the seeker tries to understand can never be known.
 
That is why there is nothing in The Open Secret message for the seeker to grasp and claim
ownership of . . . no special states of bliss, stillness or presence are on offer.
 
The fallacy of the need to attain earnestness, acceptance or refinement of the body mind is exposed. You will not be invited to look within and discover "your true nature" or that state of awareness which promises so much but comes and goes so quickly.
There are no spiritual lollipops of any kind on offer here.

There is no compromise with the seeker's need for guidance, process or teachings of becoming . . . nothing is for sale but the fairystory of the little "me" could expire.

The gift of being together in this palpable boundlessness is that already what you are is seen as wholeness, without expectations or demands. Confusion and resistance can dissolve in the light of openness and nothing will be left. Out of that nothingness emerges the indescribable fullness and wonder of simply being.

Tony Parsons - April 2007
 

Near Death Experience
 
Near death experiences are just that - near death experiences.  They are NOT the death (or more properly the dying) experience itself.  Jill has been with those who have experienced a near death experience (she has had one herself) and she has been with those experiencing death itself.  Jill can perceive there is a fundamental difference.  One is like nearly losing your hand in an accident; the other is having your hand cut clean off.  Without question, the near death experience is a very intense one; anyone who has had a near death experience invariably finds it life changing.  Near death experiences are reported all over the world by people of every culture and walk of life.  The experience itself is very real.  It’s the interpretation of the near death experience as being the same as the death experience itself that is the area of confusion.  It has been assumed that the near death experience is somehow the same or similar to the death experience.  The near death experience is often like a light-filled home coming with the sense of tender welcome and loved ones awaiting, followed by a choice to return to earthly life to fulfill something unfinished.  In contrast, Jill perceives the dying experience as one that frees the dying person from all experiences; after all, pure freedom is also freedom from oneself as well.
 

Other Dimensions
 
All dimensions are here, not out there someplace.  This one is a bit like ‘levels of consciousness’ with a supposed hierarchy of dimensions and people who can see them and bring you into contact with them.  Once again, it is ALL here.  Whatever you are experiencing now is IT, everything – including all dimensions.

Jill does acknowledge that other dimensions may exist.  What she doesn’t agree with is that they are more evolved or better than these 4 dimensions that we are aware of.  It may be cool to try and imagine and to explore what other dimensions would be like, but the truth is the 4 dimensions we know seem to provide so much to explore ….. an open and eternal invitation in every moment!
 

 Past Lives and Karma
 
 A subject of great interest and MANY teachings and belief systems, as no doubt you know already.
 
 Hear is a few ‘ticklers’ about the whole idea..  
 
1….. All of life is being lived NOW.  An interesting aspect of NOW is that it is timeless.  It cannot be grabbed – there is no past now or future now , just NOW.  So any idea or belief (& that is all they are) about Past Lives and Karma are being lived NOW.  Where are all these past lives and karma when you are not thinking about them?
 
2…. Death is Death … total liberation … complete freedom – end of story (literally) … no you.  The whole idea of past lives and karma is born out of a human desire for continuity –even after death.  Let alone do you not have other lives, you don’t even have this one!  Notice that life is just living itself.  Where are all those past lives as you notice life living itself NOW ?

PS… Please don’t confuse what is being written here with any process.  This is merely a totally inadequate description of what already is.  No process can make NOW or THIS anything but what IT already IS.  Now doesn’t have any greater power or meaning when we are paying attention.  Life lives itself both when you notice and when you don’t.!
 
3. In this appearance, however (NOW), Jill sees that the human body is full of impressions of past lives and genetic imprinting.  Jill calls these ‘cellular memories’ (as opposed to mental recollections).  Human bodies are apparently the result of unique genetic mixes.  Our emotional and psychological makeup appears to include so called ‘past life’ influences.  This appearance leads to many interpretations and explanations; one of these is past lives and karma.  Isn’t Life wondrous as it makes its appearance NOW in every combination and permutation?
 

Phantom Pain
 
This expression describes the sensations felt by amputees or those whose limbs have never grown.  Often, after amputation, amputees still feel the amputated limb and can, for example, sense it gesturing while they are speaking.  Or they can feel pain from the limb that is no longer there.  The truth is that the “limb” is still there energetically and that the pain is created because the energy body “knows” that it has been removed.  Or, in the case of those whose limbs that have never grown, they experience the limb as distorted or too short, because energetically the limb that IS there has not developed properly.  Medical procedures that strive to reduce the neurological response in the remaining physical body and thus reduce the pain have been largely unsuccessful.  However, recently, virtual reality has been used to combat the discomfort caused by phantom limb syndrome. Scientists have shown that phantom limb pain can be relieved by attaching the sufferer's real limb to an interface that allows them to see two limbs moving in a computer-generated simulation.  Psychically, I see that the reason that this approach works is because it accepts that the energetic limb is still there and allows the person to acknowledge its presence and work with it.  Pretending that it isn’t there only causes pain.  Someone who acknowledged the reality of the energetic limb and worked with it would not need to use virtual reality – they would be aware that the reality isn’t virtual! 
 

Power of Intention
 
We all know about this one – it’s the slogan of the New Age. “Create (or co-create) your future”, “Visualize what you want”, “Manifest your desire” etc.  Thousands of modern models and belief systems expound the virtues and possibilities for you.  This is very enticing and uses the clear promise of future success/happiness as its major selling point.
 
While hope is often the only thing that keeps us going, there are some real disadvantages to living in the promise of some future event.  First, it dismisses or minimizes the experience of the present. Second, and most important, it eventually leads to frustration, self doubt and self blame when things don’t work out as promised.

 
Having said that, Jill does see that intention and focus have energy and create movement in life. Human intention, if aligned with the natural energies that are occurring, can either heighten or hasten an outcome.  However, human intention and focus can not deal with all the imponderables and possibilities in each second.  The mind is linear; the cosmos is holistic.  Your field is flooded with information every second.  Life is much richer than most of us imagine.
 
All of us will die; no amount of visualizing or intention can change that.  We might hold off the moment of death while awaiting a loved one or we might let go of life earlier than expected.  But WE CANNOT CONTROL LIFE, much as we want to.  Life lives itself.  It is much larger than our personal agendas.

The human quality that helps us to meet the mystery of Life’s movements is a remarkable resilience. Humans can survive the unthinkable and continue to thrive.  We are incredibly flexible and creative. So, use that creativity and flexibility to meet Life in every second.  There is nothing wrong with making plans and aligning your energy with what you want – just remember that if it doesn’t work out, it’s not YOUR fault.  You are not in charge of the outcome.  The life you live is life living itself, fresh in very moment and TOTALLY unpredictable.
 

Prayer
 
There are (at least) three ways to look at prayer.  The first is the traditional one whereby we pray to some other being (usually God) to deliver us or give us what we want.  That doesn’t sound very uplifted or spiritual but when you boil it down, that is what it is.
 
A difficult experience for Joe personally was when the idea of a separate God/Divine figure fell away.  He realised that, since there is only ONE or only THIS, that the ONE praying is the same ONE listening.  That prayer doesn’t ‘go’ anywhere.  It is being expressed, experienced and heard in the same instant.  The true realisation of this was quite a shock for him who had held stoically to the idea of a god figure all his life. 
 
That is not to say that prayer is wrong or useless and that takes us to the second way to look at prayer.  Prayer can (and usually will) spontaneously happen in times of great distress.  It can help the personality to cope with great trauma or stress.  Prayer can occur in the context of our upbringing/conditioning/religious history.  This is regardless of currently held beliefs … it is a more primordial response to shock and trauma.  Again it is an outlet for the personality when one is needed.
 
A third (and lovely) way to view prayer is how Jill describes the energy of when people pray in such a way as to create an atmosphere of peace and calm.  This particularly happens when a group of people get together to pray.  Such forms of prayer include chanting, repeating mantra, rosaries or similar forms of call & response.  This atmosphere is very soothing to both those praying and anyone close by whether they are aware of the prayer or not.
 

Sacred Places & Sites
 
Have you ever wondered when you hear about a so called sacred place or being in the sacred presence of a master, where the line is?  Where are the limits of this sacredness – can I find the place where I have one foot in and one foot out of sacredness?

Sacred is a label – ask 10 people what it means and you will get 10 different answers, all of them correct.  Our idea of sacred also tends to change as we hear about other sacred places or people. 
It seems that the term sacred can take on the meaning of ‘very cool or special’. 
 
According to beliefs & conditioning, one culture will consider a place sacred while another will see it as dangerous.  A very good example of this is a graveyard.  In some pars of the world, nobody would buy property near a graveyard (ancient or modern) while in other parts of the world the place of the dead is considered sacred.
What is interesting is that the energy of the cemetery that is felt by the living is often created by the living!  If fear is the predominant response of the living, the graveyard will 'feel' scary.  If the main reaction is one of honouring or worship, then the same graveyard will feel still and serene and be experienced as a sacred place.

For Jill & Joe, our back garden is as ‘sacred’ as anywhere else.
 
Now another take on this is that you will find ‘energetic echoes’ everywhere.  (see also ‘Ghosts’)  So if you visit a place where much prayer has taken place over the years, then the place will have that feeling – quiet and perhaps painful.  If you visit a place where meditation has been practiced for some time the place will certainly feel still.  If you visit a place where torture and murder were practiced they the echoes of pain, suffering and cruelty will be found.  That is simply the way it is.  If we ignore our judgements about these for a moment, it is like having two flavours of ice cream to choose from – one is vomit flavour and the other one is chocolate – but both are ice cream.

We’re off to eat the chocolate ice cream in our back garden.. J&J
 

 Taking on other peoples ‘Stuff’!
 

You can’t.
What can (and does) happen is that other peoples ‘stuff’ can activate or trigger your ‘stuff’.  So if someone you are interacting with gets very angry, it could activate a response of anger or fear in you.  But it is NOT their ‘stuff’.  There is no question that it can feel like you are picking up other people’s ‘stuff’ – especially when you can experience the weight or substance of it.  Again, energy cannot adhere where there is no corresponding connection.  The same is true of someone performing a healing art.  You could find that you are feeling tired, angry, drained etc after working with individual clients.  Again it is the response to their patterns that you are experiencing.  That is not to say that sometimes it is not appropriate to decline to work with certain people.  Use your discretion.
 

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